“There is a tide in the affairs of men, which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune; omitted, all the voyage of their lives is bound in shallows and miseries. On such a full sea are we now afloat; and we must take the current when it serves, or lose our ventures.”
The message from this quote is that, opportunities that are presented to us, must never be wasted or else, we will end up in regrets (shallows, miseries and loss of our ventures, as is found in the quote)
A New Year (year 2024) is almost here and this year 2023 is already ending. If we must make reasonable progress and achieve noteworthy accomplishments in year 2024, then we must commit to doing these three things before we enter into year 2024:
1. Reflect on this year (2023).
It was Socrates who said “An unexamined life is not worth living.”
He meant that the self-examination and reflection is what enables us to live relevant lives.
In order to carry out reflection over your life you should ask yourself such questions as:
- What did you achieve this year?
- What were the things you wanted doing that you couldn't do this year and what stopped you from achieving those goals? How are you going to overcome those obstacles to achieve those goals next year?
- What did you do wrongly or poorly this year and what's your plan to improve in those areas?,
- Who are the friends that helped you the most this year, and who were the ones that didn't contribute to your life at all? What's your plan to draw yourself closer to these very helpful friends and away from those non-contributing, non-adding, time wasting and parasitic-fake friends?
- Whose advice helped you achieve the most this year and whose advice was bad advice? What's your plan to draw yourself closer to your good advisers and away from your bad advisers?
- And so on and so forth (use your discretion, there is no perfect formula for doing all that)
Taking your time to make this kind of reflection, prepares your mind and makes it a fertile ground for the next stage (stage 2):
2. Set goals for next year.
This is the next thing you ought to do to make the most of next year.
Goal setting is a major requirements for accomplishing record breaking achievements. The question here is what are the things you will want to achieve in year 2024.
Set goals for the following areas:
- Health and wellness.
- Career/Profession
- Family/relationships
- finances.
- passion/hobbies and interests
- life's Work/Purpose
3. Make a plan for achieving your goals next year.
It is said that, " When you fail to plan you plan to fail."
Setting goals is not enough, you must plan how to achieve your goals.
A goal without a plan is only a wish! Remember the saying; "If wishes were horses, beggars would ride"
So develop a strategy to help you realize your goals.
The pattern for developing the plan is:
- I will do this and that to achieve this and that. It's as simple as that.
- Use your discretion too, there is no perfect way to do it. It's work of common sense.
Conclusion
A great opportunity for increasing our status and fortune is here at our door step. We must reflect on this year and put our house in order (that is to bridge our weaknesses), set goals for the new year and plan how to achieve our goals in the coming new year or else we will repeat the mistakes of this year as well as re-experience the challenges of this year 2023 even in 2024.
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