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Wednesday, December 27, 2023

Preparing For Success in Year 2024

Figure 1. Man working on himself like a sculptor artist works on raw log of wood or clay.

Most people desire and wish for success but a larger percentage of these people are not ready or prepared for success. The saying that "if wishes were horses, beggars would have rode better" -best describes this very ugly problem. 

In this article, we will look at one major thing you need to do to adequately prepare for success.

It's about getting into shape for success

Working on yourself like a sculptor artist works on raw wood or clay.

You can't succeed or  make Quantum leaps in your life, career/profession or business without reducing weights or excesses and getting into/in shape for success.

You need to work on yourself like a sculptor artist works on his sculpture materials 

A sculptor artist takes an ugly piece of material (log of wood or Clay) and begins working on it; he removes so many parts of the material and adds a number of other things like colours, other sub-materials different from the main Material etc. (See the picture shown in fig. 1 above)

His final product is very beautiful and magnificent to behold because of the processing and refinement he has put the raw materials through.

And it's the same for we human beings who desire success in whatever area of our lives; We must remove certain things from ourselves and add other things to our lives in order to become prepared for success.

Examples of Things to add or learn are as follows:

  • Knowledge
  • Skills (management, leadership etc.)
  • Purpose/Self-discovery 
  • Vision 
  • Develop confidence 
  • Good Attitudes
  • Values/virtues (persistence, determination, devotion, dedication, focus, etc.)
  • Principles
  • Practice/Application/experience 
  • Setting Goals that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time-bound  
  • Planning 
  • Strategy/strategizing etc.

Things to eliminate or remove are as follows:

  • Negative mindsets
  • Fear
  • Procrastination
  • Negative pursuits
  • Indecision
  • Indifference
  • Lack of ambition
  • A Desire to please others more than the desire to do the right thing that pleases God and helps you achieve your goals and vision.
  • Susceptibility to negative influences (being easily influenced by negative people)

Click here to learn how to develop Self-confidence 



Tuesday, December 12, 2023

Making the most of year 2024



Consider this quote by William Shakespeare;

“There is a tide in the affairs of men, which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune; omitted, all the voyage of their lives is bound in shallows and miseries. On such a full sea are we now afloat; and we must take the current when it serves, or lose our ventures.” 

The message from this quote is that, opportunities that are presented to us, must never be wasted or else, we will end up in regrets (shallows, miseries and loss of our ventures, as is found in the quote)

A New Year (year 2024) is almost here and this year 2023 is already ending. If we must make reasonable progress and achieve noteworthy accomplishments in year 2024, then we must commit to doing these three things before we enter into year 2024: 

1. Reflect on this year (2023). 

It was Socrates who said “An unexamined life is not worth living.” 

He meant that the self-examination and reflection is what enables us to live relevant lives. 

In order to carry out reflection over your life you should ask yourself such questions as: 

  • What did you achieve this year?
  • What were the things you wanted doing that you couldn't do this year and what stopped you from achieving those goals? How are you going to overcome those obstacles to achieve those goals next year?
  • What did you do wrongly or poorly this year and what's your plan to improve in those areas?,
  • Who are the friends that helped you the most this year, and who were the ones that didn't contribute to your life at all? What's your plan to draw yourself closer to these very helpful friends and away from those non-contributing, non-adding, time wasting and parasitic-fake friends?
  • Whose advice helped you achieve the most this year and whose advice was bad advice? What's your plan to draw yourself closer to your good advisers and away from your bad advisers? 
  • And so on and so forth (use your discretion, there is no perfect formula for doing all that)

Taking your time to make this kind of reflection, prepares your mind and makes it a fertile ground for the next stage (stage 2):

2. Set goals for next year.

This is the next thing you ought to do to make the most of next year.

Goal setting is a major requirements for accomplishing record breaking achievements. The question here is what are the things you will want to achieve in year 2024.

Set goals for the following areas:

  • Health and wellness.
  • Career/Profession
  • Family/relationships
  • finances.
  • passion/hobbies and interests
  • life's Work/Purpose 
Write down all the goals in the aforementioned areas. Also ensure you include the balance of the goals or things you couldn't achieve in this year 2023, that you identified during your reflection time (in step 1)

3. Make a plan for achieving your goals next year. 

It is said that, " When you fail to plan you plan to fail."

Setting goals is not enough, you must plan how to achieve your goals. 

A goal without a plan is only a wish! Remember the saying; "If wishes were horses, beggars would ride"

So develop a strategy to help you realize your goals. 

The pattern for developing the plan is:

  • I will do this and that to achieve this and that. It's as simple as that. 
  • Use your discretion too, there is no perfect way to do it. It's  work of common sense.
Note that “The great life is never a product of laziness, indifference or fate, it is the handiwork of great levels of sacrifice.”

Conclusion

A great opportunity for increasing our status and fortune is here at our door step. We must reflect on this year and put our house in order (that is to bridge our weaknesses), set goals for the new year and plan how to achieve our goals in the coming new year or else we will repeat the mistakes of this year as well as re-experience the challenges of this year 2023 even in 2024.





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